Traditional New Year resolutions often feel heavy, demanding, and rigid. For many neurodivergent learners and adults, long lists, strict deadlines, and outcomes-focused goals create pressure rather than motivation. A softer approach supports reflection without overwhelm. The 3-Line New Year Intention Doodle offers exactly that: a calm, visual, low-cost way to think about the year ahead through expressive arts.
This approach works well for shadow teachers, educators, parents, and neurodivergent individuals who prefer simple, sensory-friendly tools for reflection.
What is the 3-Line New Year Intention Doodle?
The activity involves drawing three short lines on a blank sheet of paper. Each line holds a gentle intention:
- Rest
- Play
- Grow
These three words support balance. They shift the focus from achievement toward wellbeing, joy, and steady development.
No artistic skill is required. No perfect outcome is expected. The focus stays on the process rather than appearance.
Why this approach supports neurodivergent minds
Many neurodivergent learners experience:
- Overwhelm with open-ended tasks
- Perfection pressure
- Difficulty with abstract planning
- Emotional fatigue from constant self-monitoring
- Sensory overload
A simple, grounded, visual exercise reduces cognitive load. Drawing three lines on paper feels clear, predictable, and manageable. The activity also offers sensory regulation through colour, movement, and repetition.
This supports:
- Self-awareness
- Emotional expression
- Autonomy in self-reflection
- Reduced pressure around performance
- Non-verbal communication
The goal is calm engagement rather than productivity.
Materials needed
Keep the setup minimal:
- Plain paper
- A pen or marker
- A few coloured pencils or markers
No special stationery. No preparation. No cost barrier.
Step-by-step guide
Step 1: Settle into the moment
Sit at a table or desk. Place the paper in front of you. Take one slow breath before starting.
Step 2: Draw three short lines
Spread them out on the page. Straight or curved lines both work. Avoid overthinking.
Step 3: Label the lines
Write the words clearly:
- Rest
- Play
- Grow
Seeing these words on the page supports clarity and intention.
Step 4: Decorate each line
Add colour, tiny shapes, patterns, dots, or shading. Work slowly. Allow your hand to move at a steady, comfortable pace. No rules. No pressure.
Step 5: Reflect quietly
Look at the page. Notice which line feels most important today:
- Do you need more Rest?
- Do you want more Play?
- Do you feel ready to Grow?
There is no right answer. The focus stays on awareness.
Why Rest, Play, and Grow?
These three intentions anchor wellbeing.
Rest
Rest includes pauses, boundaries, recovery, sensory regulation, pacing, sleep routines, and quiet time.
Play
Play supports creativity, joy, experimentation, humour, and emotional release. Play is meaningful at every age.
Grow
Growth relates to learning, skill-building, confidence, communication, independence, and self-advocacy.
Each intention stands equal in value.
How educators and shadow teachers may use this activity
This activity supports:
- Morning check-ins
- Transition times
- Social emotional learning
- Self-regulation breaks
- Reflection at the start or end of term
Learners draw their three lines. They choose the intention that fits their current state. This supports communication and emotional literacy without pressure to speak or write long responses.
How parents may use this at home
Parents may explore this activity:
- At the start of the year
- Before school begins
- During calm family time
- When routines shift
The activity opens gentle conversation. A child might point to Rest on days where they feel tired. Or Play when they feel joyful. Or Grow when they feel ready to learn something new.
No judgement. Only curiosity.
Accessibility and inclusion
The activity supports:
- Different sensory preferences
- Different processing speeds
- Non-verbal expression
- Executive function support
- Reduced perfection pressure
- Emotional safety
Adjustments:
- Larger markers for motor difficulties
- Thicker paper for tactile stability
- Digital drawing for learners who prefer screens
The intention stays the same: simple reflection through visual expression.
A gentle reminder about goal setting
Goal setting does not need to feel stressful or overwhelming. Small, visual intentions support consistency and self-kindness. Progress grows from awareness, not pressure.
Closing encouragement
Try the 3-Line New Year Intention Doodle for yourself or with your learners. Keep it simple. Keep it human. Let Rest, Play, and Grow guide the rhythm of your year.
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