Children communicate in many ways. Sometimes they use words. Sometimes they use play. Sometimes they use movement, music, stories, or art.
Because artwork can feel deeply personal, many adults instinctively try to decode it. A dark drawing may be interpreted as sadness. A chaotic scribble may be seen as anger. A picture filled with monsters may raise concerns about fear or trauma.
But is it really that simple?
The short answer is no.
In expressive arts therapy and child-centred counselling, we avoid making assumptions about a child’s inner world based solely on what we see on paper.
Why We Are So Quick to Interpret Children’s Art
Most adults want to understand children better.
When a child struggles to express emotions verbally, artwork can seem like a window into their thoughts and feelings. This has led to many myths, including:
- Dark colours mean depression
- Red means anger
- Large figures indicate aggression
- Small figures indicate low self-esteem
- Missing family members suggest emotional problems
- Messy artwork means emotional distress
While artwork can sometimes provide useful information, no single drawing can accurately reveal a child’s emotional state, personality, diagnosis, or life circumstances.
Human beings are far more complex than that.
The Problem With Analysing Children’s Drawings
Imagine two children drawing a picture using black crayons.
Child A chooses black because it is their favourite colour.
Child B chooses black because they recently watched a superhero movie.
Child C chooses black because they are experimenting with contrast.
Child D chooses black because they are feeling sad.
The artwork looks similar, but the meaning behind it is completely different.
Without asking the child about their drawing, we are simply guessing.
This is why responsible therapists, counsellors, and educators do not jump to conclusions based on artwork alone.
What Expressive Arts Therapy Actually Does
One common misconception is that expressive arts therapists spend their time interpreting drawings.
In reality, expressive arts therapy focuses on helping individuals explore, express, and reflect on their experiences through creative processes.
The artwork itself is only one part of the conversation.
What matters just as much includes:
- The child’s story about the artwork
- Their emotional experience during creation
- Their choice of materials
- Their body language
- The creative process
- The themes that emerge over time
- The context of their life
Rather than asking:
“What does this picture mean?”
We are more likely to ask:
“What would you like to tell me about your picture?”
The difference is significant.
One approach assumes.
The other approach invites.
A Simple Activity to Try at Home
If your child enjoys drawing, painting, or creating art, try this simple activity.
Feelings Through Art
Materials:
Instructions:
- Invite your child to create a picture about their day.
- Avoid directing the artwork.
- Allow them to choose colours and materials freely.
- When they finish, ask open-ended questions.
Examples include:
- Tell me about your picture.
- What is happening here?
- How did you decide what to draw?
- Which part do you like most?
- Is there anything else you would like me to know about it?
Avoid questions such as:
- Are you sad?
- Is this because you are angry?
- Why did you use black?
- Does this mean you are worried?
These questions can unintentionally lead the child toward your interpretation rather than their own experience.
What Children Need Most
Children need curiosity more than analysis.
They need adults who are willing to listen before interpreting.
They need space to express themselves without feeling examined or judged.
When children feel genuinely heard, they are more likely to share thoughts and feelings that might otherwise remain hidden.
Sometimes the most valuable information comes not from the artwork itself but from the conversation that follows.
Watch the Related Video
I recently created a short video exploring this topic and discussing why a drawing is not a diagnosis.
🎥 Watch the YouTube Short here:
If you work with children, are a parent, teacher, shadow teacher, counsellor, or simply want to understand children’s emotional worlds more deeply, this video offers a helpful reminder about the importance of curiosity over assumptions.
Recommended Art Supplies for Meaningful Creative Conversations
If you would like to encourage expressive art experiences at home, here are some useful supplies to consider:
1. Crayola Washable Markers
A versatile set for drawing feelings, stories, and imaginative creations.
2. Crayola Colouring Pencils
Ideal for children who enjoy detailed artwork and colour exploration.
3. Watercolour Paint Set
Useful for exploring emotions through colour, movement, and experimentation.
4. Mixed Media Sketchbook
Provides a dedicated creative space for ongoing emotional expression.
5. Modelling Clay or Air-Dry Clay
A wonderful alternative for children who prefer tactile and sensory forms of expression.
6. Oil Pastels Set
Perfect for children who enjoy rich colours and expressive mark-making.
Final Thoughts
A child’s artwork is not a diagnostic tool.
It is an invitation.
An invitation to listen.
An invitation to become curious.
An invitation to understand a child’s unique perspective rather than imposing our own interpretations.
The next time a child proudly shows you a drawing, resist the urge to analyse it.
Instead, try asking:
“What would you like to tell me about your picture?”
The answer may reveal far more than the artwork itself.
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